Have you ever observed the conversation from a distance and guessed from the participant's physical posture and gestures what happened?One of my childhood friends and I did it for fun.Oh, the story we created.I still do this today, and I can write some books on the subject: Reading faces, socializing, body language, and technical reactions.A quick glance at what we have not said is like unveiling the veil of effective communication.Usually, the things behind the smiling face are a little more than the smiling face.A friend gave me a spine a few years ago.Reading: Reading faces by Leopold Belak, MD, and Sam Sinclair Baker (1981 ).Recently, I found an online project SymFace, which is a direct result of research done by Bellak and Sinclair in reading faces.Both methods use a technique called bi-to measure facial symmetry.Transverse symmetry.Both provide very interesting information.Belak and Sinclair started the technology by separating their faces.Try to separate the face of the picture aboveHorizontal from top to bottom.What did you see?Did you notice that her smile was more pronounced on the left side, but was her eyes a little small?Why is this?Why did she turn the right side of her face towards the camera more than the left?Bellak and Sinclair wrote that many of their study participants often show more on the right side of his or her face "...Pleasant, vulnerable, or open-minded"Though," the left hand is more likely to reflect the hidden, serious, harsh or depressed aspects of the people below "(1981 ).They concluded that the right side of the face attracted the most attention...Usually looks more like the whole face than the left.\ "Comment on that ,\"...The left side may show a more basic character.This means that if a person's left half is pleasant and the right half is angry, his original character may be pleasant....\ "As far as the woman in the picture above is concerned, her original character may be a little happier, as evidenced by her more obvious smile;However, over time, the muscle development of her left eye is different from that of her right eye.Probably the meaning on the left.Weak vision in the right eye-Eye muscles are often used to see.No matter what her situation is, this subtle difference can give us a deep understanding of the people we communicate.To sort this idea out a little bit, Let's connect it to the way a person expresses himself in body language, gestures, and eye movements while socializing.Keep in mind that the right side of the brain is related to creativity and intuition, while the left side is more logical and pragmatic and performs well in abstraction.The scene is like this.You meet someone on social occasions.You get along well with this person, or you think so.You're interested in this person.So, you start scanning their non-verbal signals.You will notice that when he or she cross his or her arms back, his or her right foot moves forward to your right.He or she smiles when you talk.You also notice that his or her eyes are up in the left eye, and the right eye is a little twitching.You still feel interested, so you decide to test his or her level of interest.You take out the mobile phone and exchange the number.He or she smiled gently, tightened his arms, turned from his left foot to his right foot, and stabilized on his left foot again.This time, however, the right foot does not point to the front.It points to his or her left and pulls back.You give him or her your phone number.He or she laughs again when he or she taps on the phone.Then he or she shoots your right shoulder with his or her left hand and tells you that he or she will call.Will you hear from this person?You probably won't.Why?The first clue of what is falling off is probably the symmetry of a person's face.It's quite possible that the person's left sphere eyes are smaller and a bit downEven turned his mouth when he smiled.However, body language and eye movements appear in large numbers for this scene.He (she) moves to your right.This is a preliminary thread that shows that this person is only interested in fast social scanning, not getting to know you more.When he or she cross his or her arms to lean back or leave you, the right foot moves forward and strengthens the movement.(Crossed arms or legs can almost always be understood as protective movements.) Smiling and laughing can also be a clue.How is he or she laughing?Does a smile look forced or natural?What clues did his or her eyes give you to let you know how sincere it is to smile and laugh?Eye movements are a clear but often hard-to-read clue.Belak and Sinclair wrote, "a more controlled or conscious reaction, a social mask of civilization, may come from more reality --Left brain orientationShow more on the right side of the face.\ "This means left and right gaze in this caseEye twitching is a signal that he or she is entering the left side of his or her brain to react to you, but to express their response on his or her more social side.Due to the inconsistency of the potential response with his or her superficial behavior, the right eye twitch.When he or she smiles gently, tightens his arms and turns from his left foot to his right foot, stabilizing on his left foot, this is the second and final thread.Laughter can be a cover for buying time, like a change in weight.The conclusion is that he or she pulls the foot back with his or her right foot, the left foot or more logical.There might be a left-Brain decisions expressed in the left brain SocietyPointing and drawing-back-right foot.However, he or she still wants to be sociable, so he or she takes your number or pretends.(As far as I know, when I take my number out, I usually ask a person to read back the number or ping my phone to confirm the interest.) The final clue is when he or she shoots your right shoulder with his left hand.In this case, he or she may feel unprepared because they are almost out of the woods, so he or she tries to be kind to you, shoulder by clapping you on the right or social field.Is it with his hand or his left hand?We shake hands with our rights, or more society, so it's logical for him or her to trade.Finally, as it is now, it may not be foreseen to see you again or talk to you.Few of us will record all of these nuances, because unless otherwise trained, we tend to record more social nuances expressed on the right side of any face.It is very likely that in this case, this person does not know his or her non-Oral communication.It is still there, however.I remember when I learned American Sign Language.When we signed up, some of my deaf friends deliberately laughed at me from a strange angle.I don't understand at first.However, the more I know about deaf culture and non-deaf cultureOral communication, the more I get: smile.So, from here, what can you do to learn more about the meaning of what we don't say?I suggest you try to pause the conversation.Seriously, listen to what he or she might say with your eyes.Then cross-check what the other person has gone through.Another good exercise is to simply look at people's faces and start looking at the relationship between their facial symmetry and their body language.
